Think about it for a second, don't just shout out your answer.
Do you know what's totally insane? The fact that I know people who have found themselves in both scenarios. I'm hoping that they are reading and will make a comment (anonymous of course) and tell me if they would have preferred the crappy hand they were dealt, or the other.
Do you know what else is totally insane? I led a yoga class for my daughters' brownie troop tonight. Halfway through the class, one of the girls dads came in and started doing the yoga poses with us. It was a little weird. And then at the end, I was standing off to the side and he came up to me and said, "I'll show you a warrior pose." And then he wrapped his arms around me and picked me up! I tried to pretend it didn't happen and scooted away from him a bit. And he said, "Did I just make you blush?" And then he did it again! What's wrong with people?
There just aren't words.
That is not okay. I mean I am trying to remember the last time a guy picked me up. It probably happened in college. But maybe not even then, I was sort of an angry confusing girl with a dry sense of humor, not really the kind of girl that guys like to pick up. As opposed to the sweaty unattractive mom of 5 girl that guys like to pick up.